Thanksgiving 2019

Life can be so unpredictable. At the end of October, when I published what I thought would be my final blog post for at least six months to a year, I certainly didn't think I would be writing another one before the end of 2019. But when life is unpredictable, the best place to go… Continue reading Thanksgiving 2019

Giving Thanks

Today in America, we celebrate Thanksgiving.  For a lot of people, this holiday can be very controversial.  Historically, it is a reminder of land and lives that were taken.  It can also be a reminder here in the present of people who are missing from around the table, through loss or estrangement.  It can be… Continue reading Giving Thanks

3 Ways To Survive the Holidays

We lost our first daughter the day before Thanksgiving two years ago.  After our loss, we went straight into the holidays.  I remember how difficult that first holiday was, trying to navigate through grief and the holiday season.  Just like every other holiday season, I wanted to create memories and honor traditions, but it didn't… Continue reading 3 Ways To Survive the Holidays

Grief, Loss, and Thanksgiving (Part 4)

I've been sitting, looking at the blinking cursor in front of me for a little while.  I have so many words to say, and yet, none at all.  A year ago, I found out I was no longer pregnant. I went into the hospital and gave birth to my stillborn baby girl. I do want to take… Continue reading Grief, Loss, and Thanksgiving (Part 4)

Grief, Loss and Thanksgiving: Part One

Part 1: Grief – Monday, November 24, 2014 It started a week or so ago.  I hadn’t felt the baby move, but I explained it away, chalked it up to the fear and anxiety I carried over from my miscarriage last year.  I had an appointment today, so I made note to talk to the… Continue reading Grief, Loss and Thanksgiving: Part One